You will probably get lots of suggestions here, but a 195/55/16 is the right size. I like both the Pirelli P1 and Snowcontrol, but the Bridgestone Driveguard is also popular. I also like the Yokohama Avid Envigor, but it is a heavier tire and does not handle as well. It has really stiff sidewalls to minimize flex when it is running flat.
Condolences on your loss, I had a Bridgestone Driveguard that worked well on my '05. 195R/55/60.
I feel you. My wife passed this past June. I'm beginning to go crazy with some toys (she'd kill me if she was still here), but I'm on my own now, so. I've been checking out a lot of darksider posts here and elsewhere, and the tire everyone suggests is 195/55-16. I just picked up a DriveGuard yesterday and am waiting for a new to me rear wheel which should be here Tuesday. I'll have my Honda dealer install the tire and see how it goes. Never been darkside before but the mileage on the mc tires sucks.
I run 36 on my driveguard. I got 20,000 miles out of my last one. I let it bleed down to about 33 then air it back up. Seems to soft to me below that air pressure.
